Monday, September 17, 2007

Tribute to Prof. Morrie - After reading "Tuesday with Morrie"

I have captured some paragraphs from "Tuesday with Morrie" to share:-

"Someitmes you cannot believe what you see, you have to believe what you feel. And if you are ever going to have other people trust you, you must feel that you can trust them, too -- even when you're in the dark. Even when you're falling."

"Forget what the culture says. I have ignored the culture much of my life. I am not going to be ashamed. What's the big deal?"

"No matter where you live, the biggest defect we human being have is our shortsightedness. We don't see what we could be. We should be looking at our potential, stretching ourselves into everything we can become. But if you 're surrounded by people who say 'I want mine now', you end up with a few people with everything and a military to keep the poor ones from rising up and stealing it."

"A little wave, bobbing along in the ocean, having a grand old time. He's enjoying the wind and the fresh air -- until he notices the other waves in front ofhim, crashing against the shore. 'My God, this is terrible," the wave says. 'Look what's going to happen to me!' Then comes another wave. It sees the first wave, looking grim, and it says to him, 'Why do you look so sad?' The first wave says, 'You don't understand! Wwe're all going to crash! All of us waves are going to be nothing! Isn't it terrible?' The second wave says, 'No, you don't understand. You're not a wave, you're part of the ocean.'"

"None of us can undo what we've done, or relive a life already recorded. But there is no such thing as 'too late' in life."


I was touched by this book. I kept thinking about the meaning of life ever since my father's death. I can still picture the last two days with him, holding his hand and getting close to his cheek, telling him a lot of things. Somehow I can feel that he did listen to me, even though he was in coma, and like Morrie, he left me in a peaceful way, while I was asleep...I guess that's the best way for every parents when saying goodbye to their children. My dad, did a very nice job!!

The view of life and death of Morrie actually gave me answers to certain extent. If you are going to die anyway, why don't you actually face it? And if you can face your own death, why can't you face your life? Perhaps the most important thing is to "live a good life". Year by year I noticed that you can make yourself happy by actually making people surrounding you happy, especially to those who you really care of. I guess that's my way to live a good life and I'll try my best to do so.

To Morrie, thanks for your "thesis". To the author, Mitch, thanks for sharing your "homework".

Wednesday, August 29, 2007

一本好書

每天搭船無所事事,總喜歡看報紙或看書解悶。最近看了一本書,是 Mitch Albom 的「For one more day」。若你不知道他是誰,可以到書局看看,他就是「The five people you meet in heaven」的作者。「For one more day」故事講述一位遇著中年危機的男人一次穿越生死的經歷。看罷教人醒覺,平時每天都好像追逐、渴求得到甚麼,對家人、朋友總以為還有明天,但當有一天你發覺再沒可能跟你最愛的親朋好友說「明天再算」時,你才發現原來你所追求的就只有一天……一天可以讓你跟身邊的人說一聲「謝謝」、「對不起」或只是道別……Just for one more day。

Monday, July 16, 2007

For Once in my life (Part II)

能夠從短短數十年的光境中找到這樣的一部份,是難得,更是祝福。在數十年後 Tony Bennett 的生日音樂會中重唱一片,證明了他的決定一點也沒錯。

聽罷感觸良多,願共嗚人互勉之。

For Once In My Life (Part I)

偶然發現 Stevie Wonder 18歲時(1969年)的 For Once in my Life,感覺十分特別。

眼前的 Steve 不會因為自己的缺陷而放棄人生,反而專注自己的長處…音樂。我相信,音樂不單是他的理想,更是他人生的一個很重要的部份。

Thursday, July 05, 2007

我愛台妹 張震嶽+MC HOTDOG+侯佩岑

請別誤會,小弟未婚妻不是台妹,但這個 version 的「我愛台妹」實在太棒了!ENJOY!!

Thursday, June 28, 2007

找工作

剛出來社會做事時,為的是找一份穩定的工作,希望過穩定的生活。

過了好幾年,開始想轉變。轉了工、亦轉了行,為的是找合適自己的工作。

又過了好幾年,開始有一種感覺是為轉變而轉變,開始有所反思。反思自己到底想做甚麼?

早在半年前已開始邊找邊想,直至早前錯失了一個大好機會後,開始發覺自己想找的未必一定是一份好工作 (Job),而是一個好的事業 (Career)。工作就好像一種工具,既可以賺錢,又可以學習,但工作其實只是其中一種工具而已。投資、創業亦都是造就成功事業的工具之一。那麼自己到底應從哪一方面著手呢?老實說,我自己也不清楚。我想,再找工作與否已經不重要,重要的是,自己應先想清楚自己事業的去向,再作行動。

Sunday, June 10, 2007

總統戰記

有趣的喬治布殊片段

Saturday, June 02, 2007

報答

朋友於年前電郵的一段文章,跟大家一起分享。

「孩子…
哪天你看到我日漸老去,身體也漸漸不行,請耐著性子試著了解我…
如果我吃的髒兮兮,如果我不會穿衣服…
有耐性一點…
你記得我曾花多久時間教你這些事嗎?
如果,當我一再重覆述說同樣的事情,不要打斷我,聽我說…
你小時候,我必須一遍又一遍的讀著同樣的故事,直到你靜靜睡著…
當我不想洗澡,不要羞辱我也不要責罵我。你記得小時後我曾編出多少理由,只為了哄你洗澡…
當你看到我對新科技的無知,給我一點時間,不要掛著嘲弄的微笑看著我……
我曾教了你多少事情啊…如何好好的吃,好好的穿…如何面對你的生命…
如果交談中我忽然失憶不知所云,給我一點時間回想…
如果我還是無能為力,請不要緊張…
對我而言重要的不是對話,而是能跟你在一起,和你的傾聽…
當我不想吃東西時,不要勉強我,我清楚知道該什麼時候進食,
當我的腿不聽使喚…..扶我一把…
如同我曾扶著你踏出你人生的第一步…
當哪天我告訴你不想再活下去了…請不要生氣…
總有一天你會了解…
試著了解我已是風燭殘年,來日可數。有一天你會發現,即使我有許多過錯,我總是盡我所能要給你最好的…
當我靠近你時不要覺得感傷,生氣或無奈。你要緊挨著我,如同我當初幫著你展開人生一樣的了解我,幫我…
扶我一把,用愛跟耐心幫我走完人生…
我將用微笑和我始終不變無邊無際的愛來回報你。」

看罷才發覺,報答不是那麼容易,因為已經沒有這個機會了…如你還有這麼的機會,請不要說沒時間、請不要說沒心情、更不要說沒感情。當失去後才知道珍惜,一切都會來得太遲。祝世上所有的父親,父親節快樂!